As a woman we have all been told how using toys set you up for failure in your more intimate "endeavors"... how using a vibrator... ruins things for when your physical with a man... We are told and share so much hearsay... but with some research... inspiration from "Sex Education" and personal experience...I am here to tell you you can have your cake and eat it too... with this fiction meets non-fictional tale of what I hope is humor...and coming of age.