Finding gratitude for strength completely nuetralizes the polarity of connections that don't seem to fade of so easily. It does this so well that tie you felt you were so bound by, will completely lose all weight and power it once held causing you any pain and heartache. This pain now turns to purpose, understanding, and appreciation, with an acceptance of love to move forward with from that point on. No grudge, no resentment. Weightlessness only, to project you forward to your next phase of life.