You're past is what defines a person, destroying your family kingdom is one way for the people to call you the Agni Chidiya, The doom of the Ember family. But the people didn't care if it was an accident or it was out of your control.
Or when you are different from you're family that is famous for their gift, and you are not able to be the same as your family does, so people view you as a failure and don't care what makes you special.
The expectation of others puts a filter on your mind on what that person is and you're opinion of them, did the person who accidentally or didn't have control to avoid the destruction of their kingdom deserve justice?
Or that family that didn't want to try to be special, but became different anyway, do they deserve so much neglect and hatred?
This fantasy, slice of life, romance, drama story shows that expectation can lead you to believe that people are defined on what they were before, but it is better learn what they are now than before.