January 23 Frankie “Why do I expect new leaves to grow on dead sticks?” I pleaded to my sponsor. “Is that a ‘why do fools fall in love’, question?” she retorted. “Oh, I suppose it is. I was doing so well having a ‘listen only’ relationship with someone then she asked why I don’t tell her my opinion and I like a ‘fool’ I told her. The ensuing pile of rationalizing and justifying she gave stank up my whole day.” “I bet your steady stream of self reproach didn’t help either,” my sponsor added. “But, I know better!” I cried. “I mean this is why I stopped my speaking role with this girl. I know she is a reactor NOT a listener. How could I fall apart at her first recognition that I am wordless in the face of her diatribes?” “You were hopeful. Is that such a crime? You think better of people than they really are. I think that helps you stay willing to help them,” she soothed. “Yes, but this snapped my willingness to work with her in half. How do I put it back together?” “Maybe you needed to learn that it’s okay to leave the dead sticks behind.” Why do turnips look like tops and turnip tops look like greens? Vlog: http://youtu.be/C_f750_kBCo You are reading selections from More Sober on the Way to Sane and Lines From My Life by Sherrie Theriault http://www.amazon.com/More-Sober-The-Way-Sane/dp/144141231X/ref=sr_1_3?ie=UTF8&qid=1374072329&sr=8-3&keywords=sober+on+the+way+to+sane http://www.amazon.com/Lines-My-Life-Sherrie-Theriault/dp/1448652820/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1374072576&sr=1-1&keywords=Lines+from+my+life%2C+Sherrie+theriaultAll Rights Reserved
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