Man Is To Sex

Have you ever been in a meeting, either with friends of the same age brackets or those above, in a class, or even in a church meeting where the topic of discussion was about sex? I mean like going into the details of it.

That topic used to freak me out! I sometimes shy away from it with laughter. It was something I just didn't know why I never wanted to talk about. Maybe because I was a shy person?

But along the way, I became comfortable talking about it and more open to listen to it no matter how it may want to sound to my hearing.

I was open to learning. For some of you, this is a slender matter. I have friends who are very comfortable with the topic of sex. So today I'm talking about sex.

People enter into relationships with the opposite sex for different reasons, for some, it could be for pleasure, fun, security, status, or even to kill loneliness, to fill a void, or money, and many other reasons.

You had your reason (s) why you chose to go into a relationship. But in an average relationship out there, there's one primary reason why people go into relationships - sex. How do I know this? You may ask.

The first agreement both parties seem to come into is "no sex until marriage". No sex until marriage is a plan for abstinence in a relationship but it is also a way to checkmate our intention to start a relationship.

I have seen relationships that started on this note but along the line, either the guy or the lady begins to request sex.

A friend was relating to me how the guy she was in a relationship with couldn't get a hold of himself and began to request for sex even after making it clear from the onset, just because they've been together for a year the guy thinks they've stayed long together to for long there to be sex.

This, my friend, got tired of his disturbance and decided to quit the relationship. I know some of you can relate to this.