Shrivelled Roses 2: Iyana Kleinbooi The ups and downs of all relationships may lead to one's psychological liberation... or they may lead to death. Most times loving a person is considered desperation, especially when you build your world around him and he crashes it. Sometimes the only reason you hang onto that thread can only be because you've never imagined life without him, and he has never given you any reason to. Meet Iyana Kleinbooi, she who discovered that her long-term boyfriend had plans to take a wife from the Mzimela royal homestead, fulfilled those plans but still managed to have a baby with Iyana in the process.