Why You Lost Your Boyfriend (And How You Can Get Him Back) Yeah, the feeling of getting dumped sucks. There's no question about that. Sometimes, you can go crazy thinking about all the things that went wrong in your relationship. But the bottom line is, the reason why your relationship ended is because your boyfriend has lost attraction for you. No, it wasn't because you left your dirty laundry around the house or that it's "him, not you...", it's because the foundation of his attraction for you faded - and it's your fault. There are ways you can "re-attract" your boyfriend (and I'll get to that in a second), but you have to first understand why he dumped you. Only then will you know how you can get him back. This is what I like to call The Six Deadly Relationship Sins. Now, I'm not saying that you committed all of these mistakes, but chances are you probably exhibited at least one of these characteristics that pretty much forced your boyfriend to leave you (even if he's claimed that he left you for another reason).