Death is everywhere and no matter what you do you can't stop it. That is why its no saddening I suppose because its unexpected, yes I know sometimes you can know but its still sudden and surprising. In movies everything turns grey or black, but you do loose people you love and that's just life. But do you ever stop and wonder if maybe Death is a person like in Terry Pratchett books which I quote "Don't think of it as dying, Think of it as leaving early to avoid the rush." R.I.P Terry, and in The Tale of the 3 Brothers by J.K Rowling where Death take a somewhat form on Earth, giving the brothers gifts. But they're just fantasy books, in reality death is when someone has no life and moves on to 'another life' so to speak, it takes up the emotion mourning and sadness, and eventually you get off the loss just like a rash.