Jed Anthony Ariens says that it is hard for men to be men because we have lost the idea of what being a man even means. It's like we shouldn't lead and make decisions and we shouldn't have a crazy direction and ambitious dreams because we're getting shoved into schools that create followers, not leaders. And there's a massive plethora of issues for men, and not just men, but women as well. But I'm not a woman, so I have trouble helping them, right? So the whole idea is that I'm doing the whole thing for men.