It's more like you start to understand the world's not all bout you. She'll love you more than her life, you the same. A purpose of a mate is happiness to fulfill your infinity. You balance each other she is Fated for you. You'll know when you find her, but your feelings have to be real to seal the bond. A Bite. But if she rejects you before the year is up you'll will feel empty, like your heart has a hole were she's supposed to be. Your werewolf side will probably go rogue. You'll will be unhappy and she will always be at the back of your mind Both will usually feel a pull but she will not you'll well have to make her. Fight it all you want but you'll will always go back to her. And when the mating bond is sealed that when you will discover true happiness. But considering your you , you'll ruin it and she'll reject you as her mate and live her life to the fullest and you won't be able to anything about it. You probably won't even be able to function. You don't deserve love I curse you Klaus"