Breakdown

Emily had always grown up being told "Marry a nice proper man." Which always rubbed her the wrong way; Why should she rely on what her mother thaught let alone rely on a man. She swore that she was destined to a life of singldom until at 30 years old emily joins the BAU, where a blond haired agent shows her, her mother got it wrong, its not a man she should marry but a woman.
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JJ grew up in small town pensivania where they attended church every sunday and the women go on to become homemakers and marry theor highschool sweethearts, but not jj the first thing she did was get out of there but when you have to pick between a decent man mother would aprove of and the new stunningly beutiful woman at the BAU life just cant seem give you a break.

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my theory on how Jemily get together, fall in love, fall out of it and end up where we are today in season 17.

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