A story of life

When i was smaller my aunt tolld me that no one ever got what they wanted.My cousin tolld me that she got what she wanted. But then i tolld hera
"It dosint mater about what you get all that maters is the love you get frome your family"but then she side "all that maters is what you whant" so i now this is a relly short story but i whant your opinin on who. Was righ me or my cousin