It's hard to feel like you're holding someone down when they are the person you love the most. You want the best for them and you want them to need you as much as you need them. It's hard when the feeling of insecurity is constantly nagging at you, telling you that you aren't good enough for anyone. You must realize that even if you feel annoying, that person you feel you don't deserve, is always there for you because they care about you.