Controlled by your surroundings, blockages, suppressions, through manipulations and fake situational occurrences from the people who claimed themselves as Good Intentions" Playing GOD I'd say... an emotional discomfort created by the people who would trust the most, family, friends, peers and x-lover who just can't move on from his loss of family trauma. Unwilling to let go, the woman had to suffer from the doings so they can missed conceptualized her to be mean, inconfidence and psychological disorder-all to hide financial claims that they do not want to share.