The way he loves me

The vilest thing anyone can do for themselves is to remember the pain. To live back in the moments that tore you to shreds. To dig into memories long forgotten. However, sometimes it is necessary to move forward. I have seen people dive into their past and not come out of it. We are lost in how to take the next step in this healing. Maybe it is not going back to morn our issues but to showcase what it means to stand above.
I do not stand and place blame but hold myself accountable, if I let the past break my future. We cannot be blind to the good things that we experience or the lessons that are there. We must see what is true in our nature and what we want in our life, to set boundaries for our peace of mind.
'The way he loves me', is a journey of what I learned from my husband. Not only what love from another is but learning to love myself. Healing is accepting it happened and learning to leave it alone, making yourself whole. So, we move forward in life and love, learning that all we are is what we allow.