1 A tale from a woman's perspective as she is getting married sooner. When you are getting married sooner and you have so many thoughts, and yet you are sure with him. You are getting married but you have unaccomplished things to do for yourself. As a woman, do we have to be completely stable and ready before we get married? When in the first place your man is the one who proposed a marriage and sees you as stable woman already. However, we doubt our self as one, because we want to be equal. We don't want to be dependent, thus we want to be stable and ready, before we get married. Most especially, make ourselves proud.