He broke up with you, which officially makes him a former lover. Exes are past partners, but is it a comeback if he still acts as your current lover? Could that be considered a return? However, what if he doesn't want to? Jai Lairhen Fallel finds herself in a state of confusion. She longs to have him back, but unfortunately, he has no interest in getting back together. His motives for continuing to treat you as a lover after breaking up remain unclear. Is it because he misses the benefits, or is there a different reason driving his behavior?