Is it bad for her to want to know what he is doing at the moment or where he is. Or is it bad for her to keep taps on his likes and dislikes. Can she not introduce herself to his hook-ups, she just wants to talk... Is is bad for her to STALK him, if she love loves him... Why can't she see the one she loves each night, he sleeps. He thinks not... "It's totally all right, babe. The more you follow me the more I want you..." -A Play Of Stalkers... obsession.