As a content creator, one of the most fulfilling parts of being online is the chance to connect with so many amazing people from all over the world. Forming friendships in this space can feel unique-bonds are built through shared passions, inside jokes, and hours spent supporting one another. But, over time, I've also learned the hard truth that not everyone has pure intentions.
Some people will approach you, not as a friend, but as an opportunity. They'll shape their character to align with what benefits them-whether that's clout, exposure, or emotional support they're not willing to reciprocate. They'll act like they care deeply, but the moment your needs don't fit their narrative, they're gone.
It's hard not to take it personally, but I've realized it says more about them than it does about me. This isn't just about creating boundaries; it's about protecting your peace and finding connections rooted in authenticity. Real friends won't manipulate you for their gain. They'll stand beside you, cheer for you, and stay consistent-both online and in real life