Families are the foundation of society, and within every family, elders and influential members play a critical role in shaping its structure, values, and relationships. Their wisdom, experience, and authority can either strengthen family bonds or, if misused, create divisions. One of the key challenges in family dynamics is the tendency to focus on weaknesses rather than strengths, leading to misunderstandings, conflicts, and even separations. An elder or influential figure can help prevent this by fostering harmony, resolving conflicts, and nurturing a positive environment.