Find Me... Cause I'll Never Find You... {Matty.Healy}

LOVE...

Love isn't a state of perfect caring… To love someone is to strive and to accept that person for exactly the way they are.
Maybe that’s why most of us experience such disappointment over love in our lives. We've defined it wrongly. We always expect it to go just one way. And so we expect things to happen, that never do.
If we realized that love isn't supposed to be some kind of joyride all the time, but rather a struggle, our expectations might be more in line with reality.
We don’t love someone because they’re perfect. They may seem perfect, at first, but they’re not. And we eventually find that out.
Then, the challenge is to continue to love them. No matter what. Through thick and thin. At the parts when It's painful to watch them get hurt and make mistakes. It becomes frustrating when they are stubborn and contentious. It can be heartbreaking when they fail and suffer. But you're always there. You're always picking them back up and giving your all to help them.

But what happens when you've given your all to that person you love? When you have nothing left? They quickly change. They suddenly become nothing but a stranger to you. All that time, all that effort.... To not only lose him at the end of it. But you've lost yourself.

He's gone.

You're now lost. And close to giving in.

***Find Me... Cause I'll Never Find You...***