Is a soulmate always a lover?

,,Was it always supposed to be love when you met the right one?"
,,Could it be that love is always destined or would you say it could be choosen?"
,,If you could choose between beeing destined or choosen what wou-... Excuse me misster the libary is about to close please leave."

Well that was something that Dionysos heard way to often. He just liked to write his poems in the libary when the sunset beginn and most people were at home with their loved ones,
well he does have his loved ones at home but he is a quiet and shy introvert who doesn't go outside on a sunny day . And yes his name is the same as the drunken god Dionysos from the Greek mythology.
Did he choose the name: NO!
Whould he choose another name:... no...

But who knows mabye he will find his love just like the Dionysos found it in Ampelos and mabye this love will distroy him.