Naimat- Blessing Of Allah

We all wait for love in our life and when Allah bless us with love, we nurture it and expect that it remains solely with us. We don't like shairing our love with someone else, But the real essence of love begins when the love remains the same for a person who is not alone.,he/ she is associated with baggage in his/ her life. All men needs one man woman but if the destiny plays its cruel part with woman what should be the man role? His love should be same as before? Or he will drop his role in the game?