Things happen. And there is nothing we can do about it. That is the way life works. There is a cause and an effect in life. Like if you feed a flower with water and sunlight, then it will grow. Or if you don't do anything to help the flower grow then obviously it will die. That is how things work. And you can't change it. The only thing you can change in life, is not the cause, it isn't the effect, but it's the way YOU cause the effect. And if you dont like the effect. Then change yourself. Your attitude. Your perspective on the world.