And everything changed... Year after year the realities change and sometimes just get worse. My reality is one of those, they say we are free and I believe it, we can choose what we want to wear or eat but not what we want to do. Men are born to fight and women are born to be quiet and silence, it seems a retrograde idea but fear dominated people,the afraid of what happens if we try to change this However I am afraid that this is never going to change.