I got hurt!

We should really know where our place is. So we won't get affliction. Don't assume, so you won't cry. Don't expect, so your life won't get misery.
But what can I do? He is showing some kindness, care and love? How can you not fall for that?! If I could just only tell my heart not to fall for that guy maybe I won't be in pain right now. But because of this stupid traitor heart I GOT HURT!