-a brief but intense infatuation for someone, especially someone unattainable or inappropriate. Why do we even have crushes ? I mean, yeah it's kinda fun but most of the time it hurts, like when you found out that he/she has a mutual understanding with someone or when you know that he/she will never like you back. That HURTS. Especially when you've been crushing on them for a long time. A.N. This story is kinda based on true events that happened to me lol. It's like my diary..