Now death doesn't surprise me, it just happens. I move on fairly quickly... however that is not to say that I do not feel pain; and it is not to say I don't miss the dead; I do all of them things, just less dramatically.
If I touch a burning candle, I can feel no pain. In the ice or in the sun, it's all the same. Yet I feel my heart is aching, but it doesn't beat, it's breaking, and the pain here that I feel, try and tell me it's not real. I know that I am dead, yet it seems that I still have some tears to shed.