Forever Halloween {Kaylor}

I just don't know what to say. Dammit, I don't even know what to think. How in the world can I figure out the right words for a situation like this? What would I tell her? "Sorry, man. You're great and I do think you're beautiful and funny and smart, but I should warn you beforehand that nothing will ever happen between us 'cause I'm still not really over my dead fiancé who, by the way, I can still see and talk to once a year... Oh yeah, I see dead people." That doesn't seem like a great option for me.