We're all seeking that special person who is right for us. But if you've been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect that there is no right person, just different flavors of wrong. Why is this? Because you, yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complimentary ways. But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness. And it isn't until you finally run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems- the one that makes you truly who you are- that we're ready to find a lifelong mate. Only then you finally know what you're looking for. You're looking for the wrong person. But not just the wrong person; it's got to be the right wrong person. Someone you lovingly gaze upon and think, "This is the problem I want to have." -Andrew Boyd