Big differences are actually real in life,give them a chance weather or not they physically don't appeal to you, but sooner of later their personality is what truly matters. Which is what you depend on.
When you reach a certain age, you expect milestones to pile on top of each other. It's suppose to be extraordinary but that's fantasy. Real life, people don't just get everything and sometimes when they do get everything it's not what they needed at all.
So what's better? To have it all? Or to have nothing but a dream?