The story of a baby forced to be a girl

All of us would like to believe we are above gender roles, but are we really? Probably not. Nobody ever says congratulations its a baby! Gender still defines us. But no just gender, that would not be a big problem, having a vagina is not this babys problem. The stereotypes of having a vagina are. Being female there are certain rules you need to follow, obey them or you cant find your place in the world. Your character is brought upon you before you can even develop one yourself. So that little girl will never truly be able to be herself, to be herself without feeling guilty. Feeling guilty of never being enough, not pretty enough, not feminine enough.
Now as frightening as that may sound, we have all experienced it, we have been programmed by society. Never being yourself, let alone transphobia are the outcome. But is it even possible to fully overcome gender roles?