"I'm the girlfriend and you're the boyfriend." The girl with the cross necklace told the other girl, when the two were fourteen, and she first came up with the game. "You can kiss me, on the lips, and hold my hand." She whispered into the other's ear. "But only when we play, of course." She said, before adding the most important rule, "but we can't tell anyone about this game, it's just ours." // Trigger warning: Homophobia