I dreamed of having the perfect boyfriend, and I knew it wouldn't happen.
Destiny - I was that geeky girl who had one friend, never had a boyfriend. I dreamed of the best guy for me. I knew it wouldn't happen though so I kept dreaming. Then I met that one guy who loved me, for me.
Ryan - I was one popular person in high school, and I had many girlfriends over the year. Sometimes I dreamt of the perfect girl for myself, but that changed a lot. Then I met the girl who changed me.
What happened when you got a perfect partner who understands, respect and care about you equally, you had beautiful perfect plan for your future but due to outside effect you are forced to marry someone else. Well destiny is something else. What lacked in your relationship so that it did not work out it's way.