Coming out? Not really. This isn't so much coming out rather it is trying to explain how I found this part of myself. I decided to write this after considering how some of my friends don't understand how I "work" in context of being lesbian. I think its best to describe the timeline of events related to the topic. Hopefully it'll make more clear my view of things.
So thank you, my friends <kb^2, lb, and bas>, for giving me a window into seeing things from the side you stand.