Dominant. Possesive. Jerk..... My Mate

Alessa is your usual 19 year old werewolf. Crom the night she turned she wanted to meet her mate. She visited alot of places to see if he's there. But she had no luck. Finally after a year of searching she gave up. As yous see, stubborn,impatient and alitttle loud. Would it be a good mix with jerk,dominance and possesiveness. Absolutely not. So how how long can Alessa hold on against such personality?