Lucky Man

I, like most guys thought that being a player was the route to go in life. I had no real role model on how to treat women other than watching all the bad examples of men around me. I knew this could not be the way to make a soul mate happy or even dream of spending the rest of their life with me. I admit, I was to proud to ask because this world have a strange way of making you feel like a weak person just because you ask for help. So I continued my quest of dating women along the way and I started listening to some of them speak from a place of hurt.....hurt that was caused by guys like me that just wanted to lay and play. I realized that we are not helping the female population by hurting them like this. Then a mind blowing question popped in my head. HOW WOULD YOU LIKE TO MEET A FEMALE FOR THE FIRST TIME AFTER SHE HAVE BEEN HURT!!! It was like a light bulb went on in my head. I started asking on how to treat women(I did not care who knew) because I knew I had to do my part in not hurting God's precious gems. I started reading the bible more, listening to what women really was looking for in life. I would do what I thought was right even at the time it was going against what I was feeling. Example: If I was dating a women and she told me she did not want sex before marriage I would honor that even if we were in a situation that we both wanted to have sex. This type of change made me a better person.....that's what I was being told. I even felt better and I knew I was heading in the right direction. I decided to really seek a women that I knew we can make each other happy.....and that is exactly what happen. A friend I went to school with never thought of her becoming my wife for almost 30 years happened. We went on one date and I knew I was blessed to meet the mother of my future children, a life long soul mate, a person that will help me and I help her to become better, and best of all someone I plan to grow old and die with. It's really not luck it's maturity.