You are absolutely torn apart since the break up. Your family and friends are rallying around to try to help you through the ordeal. The are making all sorts of suggestions as to what to do to feel happier, but nothing they say really sinks in. All you can think about is that your relationship has ended and you will not see your ex ever again. This is precisely why you will NOT be able to see signs your ex is still in love with you even if they slapped you in the face. Your emotions are running so wild at the moment that you are totally blind and deaf to everything around you. People talk to you, but you hear nothing they say - things happen right in front of you eyes, but nothing registers - you are a total wreck.