In love, you can love who what you want.. In love, you can choose also between heart and mind... there are not equal.. as many of us is still using the power of heart rather than mind... using heart sometimes lead us in wrong person and to the right person as well. but in mind you will have a power to be practical, you can choose who ever you want in not using the heart.. you can also hurt or you can also laughed.. but if your relationship goes with the boundaries... you can not choose.. you can not follow what you want.. but.. it will leads to the other person that has a power to choose who is the right for you.. boundaries of destined