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Chapter 3
Self - Confidence
1- You need self-confidence for everything you do in your daily life. Whether it be for your social life, or your business life. Unfortunately, however, more than 95 percent of the people of the world do not have full self-confidence. It is not an easy thing to attain like going to the pharmacy and purchasing some pills for self-confidence like it is with vitamins, and the next day you will be fine. You have to go through a lot of challenges in your life to accomplish a lot of things in order to attain self confidence. You will find some people who inherited a lot of money who do not have self-confidence. This is because they inherited their money the easy way, without any challenges. You may sometimes see a beautiful actress who is rich and famous, but she does not have self-confidence because she became an actress by knowing producers or directors.
2- You need self-confidence in business to talk to people and to negotiate with people. Also, to sometimes give a speech. It will be embarrassing for someone who has no self-confidence to start blushing. I have seen a lot of people who have been embarrassed, where their faces would blush (turn red), their hands start to shake, and sudden changes in their voice.
3- Self Confidence varies from one person to another. For Example, you may find someone who studies hard and does well in exams has 50 percent of self-confidence while his brother who does not study and cheats on exams has 20 percent of self-confidence. You may find a lazy girl who only has 25 percent self-confidence, while her sister has 45 percent self-confidence because she participates in more sports.
4- Usually, young people have less self-confidence than older people. The older a person gets; the more challenges they go through in their life. This is why that when you get older, you have more self-confidence. But still, some older people do not have self confidence because they did not have enough challenges in their life.