howperfectyouare
When I moved to Milan, I had no friends, no family, and no idea how much one unexpected encounter would change my life. *How Perfect You Are* is a collection of real letters I wrote over the course of a year, documenting my journey through love, rejection, self-discovery, and personal growth.
Through my relationship with Lorenzo, I began to question everything I thought I knew about love. What does it mean to truly love someone? Why do we become attached? Can we be happy without being loved in return? These letters are my honest attempt to answer those questions as I lived them.
This is not a dating guide or a fictional romance. It is a deeply personal memoir about learning to let go of fear, embrace vulnerability, and become a happier, stronger, and more authentic version of myself. Along the way, I share my reflections on modern dating, ghosting, emotional independence, sexuality, and the philosophy of love.
If you've ever fallen for someone who didn't choose you, struggled to move on, or wondered what love really is, I hope my story reminds you that the greatest relationship we build is the one with ourselves. Sometimes, the people who change our lives the most are not the ones who stay forever, but the ones who inspire us to become who we were meant to be.