NO HOMOPHOBIA!!! YOUR COMMENT WILL BE DELETED...
picture a scale. on one end is girls and the other end is boys. the parts of the scale are non- binary. if you are a straight boy born as a boy then you have a fixed point on the scale and you don't move.
but then, if you're non-binary then you aren't on the scale. if you are gender fluid you move all over the scale and sometimes end up off the scale (non-binary) and you don't have a fixed gender or point on the scale.
as of 2020, there are 64-72 genders and only two discovered lower private parts. YOU ARE VALID NO MATTER WHAT XO