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by Ra_sina

by Ra_sina

"Put kamu berapa tahun sekarang?" (Oh okay, here again)
"25"
"Wah udah pas itu, hayu buru geura nikah" (yups, I will pass it)
"Kalau belum ada jodohnya minta dicarikan sama mamah" (oh hey, it's look's like i'm very desperate to find a man) "oh meybe u are put!" Wkwk
"Umur 25 itu pas. Jangan nanti-nanti, sistem biologis perempuan itu ada expirednya" (oh okay I agree about the last one.)
To be honest at that moment i really wanna cry 😆🤣🙈

"Put, anter mamah check up"
"Okeyy"
"Dandan yang cantik siapa tau ketemu jodoh" (Also him, don't do makeup to much. Jelek)

"Siapa pacar kamu sekarang? Ada gak? Mau dicariin?"
"Ada dong, semejak dilauful mahfuz, jodoh put udah ada jadi tenang aja ya"
"Ada yang lagi deket gak sama kamu?"
"Iya, siapa tau put meninggal duluan. Kan enggak ada yang tau"
"Kok ngomong gitu?"
"Kan gak ada yang tau, tentang jodoh dan kematian mums"
"Iya, tapi kamu harus tetep ikhtiar kan. Kata Allah juga harus ikhtiar" (I did, what can i say if she not that freely to choice with who i will share my life with)
"I do mums don't worry"

"Kenapa sih pada nanyain siapa pacar put, terus sering akhir-akhir ini papski juga bilang "dandan yg cantik ya". Kan nyebeliin)
"Enggak, gak sering. Takut nya aja kamu mikir mums gak perhatian. Yaudah mulai sekarang gak akan tanya-tanya lagi" (I was ever spill about someone who serious with me🤣 but she didn't take it seriously)
"Bingung sendiri kenapa jadi mums yang marah" (dalem hati itu ngomongnya)

Kerja dilingkungan yang sudah lumrah menikah muda be lyke
"Umur berapa?"
"25"
"Udah nikah?"
"Belum"
"Kenapa"
"Gak apa-apa." (Even if i tell u the reason very detail. U will hard to take it. Cause their stigma umur 25 belum nikah itu aneh. And who i'm? I'm just a new ppl who don't agree about that stigma. And how they will take my reason than)

If there ppl who say "They care about u"
I think the way they care is to much until cross the private life of someone.
Even for parents to. I know they might be worry. I understand about that. But I think there is another way how to ask it more "halus"? Like
"Mums bebasin kamu pilih suami kamu. Asal kamu harus hati-hati milihnya. Di do'akan supaya dapat yang baik, soleh, dst.."(the part of do'akan i think my mum already do that and always i believe about that)

It's that bad? Ofc! Ini tuh kaya ada di lingkungan toxic gak sih? Like actually asking "who is your boyfriend? Have u already found one? When u will get married? Do u want me to help u looking for husband?" Udah biasa ya tapii ternyata ini tuh udah masuk keranah mental healthy someone loh. Cause when they to much "care" about someone's life and keep asking it repeatedly. There are two possibilities (oh okay there's four)
1. Kepikiran
2. Suddenly insecure
3. Pressure
4. Stress

And I was surprised, gw udah ada di tahap ke 3! 😵😦😖😲🤤🥱 It's that bad? I think so. But I do believe myself i can pass it! I'm stronger than u think actually🌼💪🏻

Gw rasa umur 25 itu umur terkutuk bagi seluruh kaum hawa. Iya gak sih?
Ditambah udah banyak orang-orang terdekat lo getting married 😦 like
"What? Homina homina homina puji kerang ajaib it's distater for me🤕. Happiness for them) 😝🤣

Do u still think it's crisis life for someone who already at 25?
Oh actually it's not crisis life for me. But crisis life for other ppl including our parents! 🙈

Was thinking about to move out here 🤣 it's kinda called escape but sometimes we need to escape to understand universe more better than before.
It's okay guys! I'm okay! I will always okay 💪🏻

Don't pity me. I just hope after u guys see this u will understand about someone private life. See the line that u can't enter 😝

Indonesia 25 y.o issues about marriage 🤯

Of u guys wondering i'm happy or not!?
I'M SINGLE AND YEAH VERY HAPPY!
Cause?
I love myself. When u love yourself u will know how to respect and make yourself happy. If u love yourself u will know what u really want to