Relationships are incredible, it grows when we water them. When we care about people in them, sacrifice ourselves to help them grow or just feel better. It is amazing to see how friendship in your area are growing but maybe there are also some that are declining. Yeah, we can say that it is our fault, maybe we think we haven't watered them enough but the truth may be different. When you really cared about it and you have been watering them frequently but there isn't any soil to absorb that water, it was worth nothing. I know it may hurts to let these relationships go but sometimes it is the best thing we can do. It's like a rope that you are holding too tight and it is cutting into your skin, it will hurt less when you leave it.