Who's at Fault?- A GHKKPM Vent-Out

Mistakes, Mistakes, Mistakes!

This is a vent-out. Please don't repost without permission and respect the effort and hard work put in it. I do not intend to defame or hurt any person, especially not the actors portraying the roles, and if you feel offended, apologies in advance. But this is my take on it, and it may differ from your point of view. Thank you!

The mistakes Pakhi did in the past:

1. If Pakhi says that she loves Virat, she MUST trust him. But she didn't and decided to move on from him.

2. Pakhi blocked Virat's number. If she wouldn't have done so, the misunderstanding would never have formed in the first place.

3. NOBODY HAD FORCED PAKHI TO MARRY SAMRAT. IT WAS HER OWN CHOICE. Now she can't change things at her convenience, right? First, she will agree to marry Samrat, and then out of the blue, she will beg Virat to marry her. Isn't that called playing with feelings? You can't get away with this easily, Pakhi! 

4. Virat had promised that he will surely be his friend, JUST A FRIEND, not carry out an extramarital affair. But she really wants him to love her and ignore his own legally wedded wife. Always support her more than his wife even if she (Pakhi) is wrong. Just anything??

5. The stupid vaada Virat gave her, how could she literally believe it??? Means, she will marry Samrat, live with him like any other ordinary couple, give birth to his kids, and Virat will be a bachelor for whole life??? Love is always selfless. When you are in love, you want the person to live happily more than yourself. You care for him/her more than your own self. But in this case, Pakhi wants Virat to be his for life, even if she will not reciprocate. That's practically not possible! Love is always selfless, Obsession is selfish. This clearly states that Pakhi is obsessed with Virat, she doesn't love him.

6. Love at first sight, as they say, is something dreamy and fictional, not really practical. You saw the face and you are in love? Wow! Love never really judges face and looks, it judges the heart. You can develop a liking for the face and looks, but that's not love, it's a mere crush or obsession. Similarly, Pakhi fell for Virat's looks and the same with Virat. I don't know how can someone fall in love with a person he/she just met??? Knows him/her for a mere 1 and a half days? Ridiculous!

7. When Virat said that he will not break his brother's marriage, that clearly stated that Virat does not love Pakhi. Virat loves Samrat truly, that's why he sacrificed his feelings for him. (As I said, true love is selfless) Virat just had some feelings for Pakhi, if he truly loved her, he would have surely married her, because Pakhi herself said that she could not be happy with Samrat. Pakhi should have gauged this and start her life afresh with someone else, who could care for her feelings, who deserved her, who loved her in a true sense.

8. If Samrat had not left, she would have toyed with both Samrat and Virat. Awful!

9. When you live with someone for so long, you ought to develop an emotional attachment with that person. Virat has lived with Sai for half a year now, as his HUSBAND, won't he start to fall in love with her? But no, Pakhi has problems with that too. Loving your own spouse is not demeaning or betraying another person. If Virat would ignore Sai and love Pakhi, that surely is demeaning and betraying both Sai and Samrat. 

10. WHATEVER, I MEAN WHATEVER THE REASON, EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIR IS NOT JUSTIFIED!! Whatever relation you share before marriage, you can't continue it after getting married to another person. You may still love the other man, but you have to move on and be loyal to your spouse!! If that's not possible, you can divorce your spouse, but at least not betray him/her!

If Pakhi understands these things, I guarantee her life will become much easier! 

And that Mahaan Vaada, What should I say about that?

I would just suggest that never make promises which you won't be able to keep in the long run...Virat promised Patralekha that he will never let any other women enter his life or his heart...When Pakhi can get married, why will Virat remain a bachelor for his whole life? Just because of a two-day infatuation where Pakhi became so restless that she could not wait for even a month for Virat's call and decided to move on? Was this your "love"? If you really love Virat, you should have trusted him, Pakhi! Love is incomplete without trust! Anyway, talking about Virat, he promised her that he will never let any other woman enter his life, right? Why Virat? Just because your beloved Pakhi didn't trust you and decided to move on in her life? I understand your emotions, but you should have given it a thought that if Pakhi was marrying Samrat, how could you possibly still be in love with her and not anyone else? Your elder brother's WIFE?? Still, you made such a foolish commitment to her? You asked Pakhi to marry Samrat so that Samrat's heart does not break. Did you think of the repercussion? When he would get to know about this, how would he feel? The lady with whom he was going to live his life, didn't care for him but loved his younger brother? Wouldn't that thought hurt him more? Well, that is what exactly was the consequence. Samrat felt betrayed by both Pakhi and Virat, and finally, he left for good, not wanting to come between them. Was this what you wanted? That one promise ruined 4 lives!! Virat, Pakhi, Samrat, and Sai. Another innocent character of this entire story is Sai. Sai, knowing that his to-be-husband harbored feelings for another woman, which was his own sister-in-law, sacrificed her life to him and promised that she won't come between them. Sai had started developing a soft corner for Virat seeing his efforts to help her in the initial days of their marriage, still, she never let her feelings out so that she didn't come between Pakhi and Virat. But when Virat reminded Sai again and again that she was not anything more than his responsibility, or rather a burden to him, she thought that she can never get a place in Virat's heart and so, just started respected him, nothing else. This is the ultimate outcome of your illogical promise, Virat! Now, when you have started developing feelings for Sai, Sai's words of considering herself just a "responsibility" of yours fall as a tight slap on you. Result of your past deeds, can't help! Now comes how to get out of this situation. You made a mistake, and the best part is, you are repenting, so you should muster courage and confess your love to Sai, in front of Pakhi... Because even Pakhi did a mistake, mistake of not trusting you, and even after getting married, trying to get close to you and separate you from your wife. Let Pakhi know that you don't have feelings for her but your wife, Sai! Sai doesn't want to be an obstacle between you and Pakhi, that's the reason she doesn't think of reciprocating your feelings. Once you clear the misunderstanding, it will all be normal and Sairat can start their journey! Although this will be heartbreaking for Pakhi, it is a blessing in disguise for her too as even she can start afresh with Samrat, his husband, who truly cares for her, loves her, and will surely be a better companion to her than Virat. This is the best thing to be done. Love triangles always give pain to all the people involved in them, so they should be broken as soon as they start, and for that, one should be crystal clear in one's opinion. Virat, you were confused before, but now you are not, so this is the right time, go ahead and confess your love, putting an ultimate end to this painful love triangle!

I am feeling lighter after penning this down. I was fed up with the drama and had to vent out my feelings. 

Thanks and sincerely,
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