Most people who enter into relationships expect the best intentions, assuming that they will have a successful, and have a permanent relationship. Unfortunately, it’s not always the case that relationships work out as planned. Overtime relationships weaken and become unstable through issues that affect a relationship.
Is being in a relationship worth it? Well let’s think about the commitment and responsibilities of giving partially half of your life to someone else and sacrificing the personal things you have and do, such as your time for your family and friends, your activities, future plans, and goals. In some point in a relationship you’ll have to make your own decisions whether it’s this or that. It’s going to be a “give and take,” where choosing a decision will affect you both ways. For example, choosing to spend time with your partner instead of choosing to spend time with your family/friends could eventually result in neglecting to one another. Not unless understanding and/or common interest are established in all parties involved.
Let’s take this to the next level. Say now, you’ve been in a relationship with your partner for quite some time now and things are getting a bit difficult for you both because you’ve found that its time consuming and that it’s a distraction from spending time with your partner to your personal activities in your life or in your learnings in school, etc. Then, it gets boring being around your partner when your together and/or maybe the reason being is your partner could be tiered of you and maybe cheating on you for someone else. For this being the case, of the situation and of the responsibility of not taking your relationship seriously with your partner and making it possible for you both to benefit and be progressive into having a successful relationship.
In the long run, relationship issues will eventually occur overtime at a point when one or both of you feel that your plans aren't being met and that your expectations of having a successful relationship didn’t turned out as planned.
