Dear all,
Hi, this is an important message. There are all types of people. Those who are sweet, those who cheat, those who sleep around, and then there are those who are abusive and crazy. I had met who I thought was a friend. He would accuse me of things, and get mad for no reason. He would threaten me, and call me names. When I threatened to block him, he said he'd change, he'd never do it again. He wanted another chance over and over again. I would stupidly believe him, because I was naïve. But one day, my friend opened my eyes and I knew I was done. He started being nasty. I told him I was blocking him, he did the same routine. But this time, I confronted him. He wouldn't have it, said it was my fault. I told he couldn't manipulate me anymore, and that I was done. Then I blocked him. It was the BEST I ever felt in months of abuse.
Abusers will make excuses for what they say/do. They will apologize, but the WILL keep repeating it over and over. They will try and manipulate you into believing they won't do it it again and that it is your fault for what they say/do. But you nee to remember, they will NEVER change, and it is NOT your fault whatsoever. Know your worth, get out before they break you down completely (physically/emotionally) or worse kill you. If you ever think no one will ever care/love you, or you deserve this, your wrong. You deserve better!
Sincerely,
Alana Malitzi.
