Hey there.
Growing up we've always learned to be polite. learned to hide our naked bodies from everyone except our parents . Basically, they taught us all the positive things that we must have.but they most importantly forgot to inform us that the world ain't no heaven.....
Speaking from a girl who grew up with zero rules and regulations, this might sound rich coming from me ,maybe that's why I'm writing this to y'all, growing up i always used the word "No" , u know when u wake up and choose a word that sticks sith u the whole day, "No" was my childhood word .no to veggies. No to avoiding sweets and ice cream ,
So when i grew up i was ready to face the difficulties of this shitty-ass world maybe watching movies with m my big Brothers during my childhood was not that bad . Facing the world also made me meet people , some were positive for me , while others absolutely destroyed the mentality i grew up with , these people exist everywhere, and i know YOU definitely met them through ur life, hell, they might even be sitting right in front of you eating snacks ...
My point is why let people control u if u already have ur own mind and ur own liberty to choose ? .NO CAN DO learn ro take matters into ur hands if things don't work out your way the main reason we normalize sexual homicides these days because deep down we've been taught to never say no to people we know , people we love , but at some point we wonder are they really worth my YES? . The answer is TRY AND SEE , everything revolving around us happened by experience. Gravity? Newton's trying to figure why the apple fell from the fuckin tree , chemicals? Scientist trying to invent new ones by mixing them .
We have to move on from the thoughts that we can't reject people thinking it'll hurt them , what if it hurts US? Why did she let him tie her and degrade her ? Because she loves him and if she declines he might be sad . See. God is not that stupid to make us soulmates who'll be bad for us . That's not the definition of soulmates . Soulmates compromise for each other ...
Moral of the story is : u don't like being tied ? Say NO . U dont like this movie ? Say NO . U don't trust her enough to give her ur credit card?.Say NO . It's one easy response
NO ! FUCKING NO!..
