Developing and expressing feelings may become a tedious balancing act when you've lost someone in love. Are you at a stage to get them a gift? Are you texting too much or too less? Should you hold hands? Is it too soon to ask to meet again? Questions that drive you crazy. The last time when someone said "I love you" (after a roller coaster of 7 months), I was so compelled to say it back, but could feel it in my guts that it's not going to turn out good.