Don't allow any man or woman to use you, allow God to use you and he will if only you allow him to, tell him you're ready, love is not meant to hurt you according to 1st Corinthians 13 which goes to say, if I could speak all the human and angelic tongues, but had no love, I would only be sounding brass or a clanging cymbal, if I had the gift of prophecy, knowing secret things with all kinds of knowledge, and had faith great enough to remove mountains, but had no love, I would be nothing. If I gave everything I had to the poor, and even give up my body to be burned, if I am without love, it would be of no value to me. Love is patient, kind without envy. It is not boastful or arrogant. It is not ill-mannered nor does it seek its own interest. Love overcomes anger and forgets offenses. It does not take delight in wrong, but rejoices in truth. Love excuses everything, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. Love will never end. Prophecies may cease, tongues be silent and knowledge disappears. For knowledge grasps something of the truth and prophecy as well. And when what is perfect comes, everything imperfect will pass away. When I was a child I thought and reasoned like a child, but when I grew up, I gave up childish ways. Likewise, at present we see dimly as in a mirror, but then I will know as I am known. Now we have faith, hope and love, these three but the greatest of these is love.
